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The 7 Weeks of Transformation starts on the evening of Sunday April 13th, 2025

In the beginning of every Spring, we have a chance to transform one of our natural behaviors that we would like to improve. This "new year resolution" declaration, is followed by 49 days of self awareness.  Every day we focus on a different aspect of our soul, and on the 50th day we set ourselves free hopefully.

Go to the transformation for this week.

1st Week - Loving

Today is one day of transformation- Loving Love

First week: Love and kindness.
We would like to show love and kindness to people around us. We are all connected in the tapestry of life. Our soul needs love as much as our body needs food and liquids. Love has the power of healing. Sick people who are surrounded by loving family members, heal faster. When we feel loved through our lives, we can push ourselves, follow our dreams, and reach our potential. 


Sunday evening 4/13: How is our love? Are we comfortable of showing love, or are we embarrassed? 

Today is two days of transformation - Disciplined Love

Monday evening 4/14: Are we loving appropriately? Are we being overbearing, or are we being limited? Can we help someone on their terms not on ours? 

Today is three days of transformation - Compassionate Love

Tuesday evening 4/15: Are we compassionate when we love?

Today is four days of transformation - Lasting Love

Wednesday evening 4/16: Is our love lasting even when we are tired, hungry, sad, or when we don’t feel being loved back? 

Today is five days of transformation - Humbled Love

Thursday evening 4/17: Are we thankful for being able to love others, or only when we are being loved by others? Can we swallow our pride and reconcile with a loved one we have quarreled with?

Today is six days of transformation - Bonded Love

Friday evening 4/18: Do we feel that our bond with people is getting stronger when we love, or do we feel lonelier? 

1st Week 7th day - Loving

Today is seven days, which is one week of transformation - Dignity of Love

Saturday evening 4/19: Are we being loved sincerely, or do we feel hurt? 

2nd Week - Disciplined

Today is eight days of transformation - Loving Discipline

  

2nd week: self-judgment and self- discipline.

Good judgement and discipline is useful when we judge and discipline ourselves, and it’s always a good idea to lead by example. Ultimately, we’d like to behave appropriately, like not being too intense which can hurt or by being too easy which may be ineffective. It’s best to begin with ease, and increase intensity over time until we receive  that positive feedback that we are seeking. If we judge and discipline  our children, grandchildren, or others, we judge a reflection of ourselves, therefore we need to discipline ourselves.


Sunday evening 4/20: Do we discipline with love and kindness?


Today is nine days of transformation - Disciplined Discipline

Monday evening 4/21: Are we disciplining appropriately? Are we being too harsh, or are we being too lenient?

Today is ten days of transformation - Compassionate Discipline

Tuesday evening 4/22: Are we compassionate and merciful when we judge and discipline?

Today is eleven days of transformation - Lasting Discipline

Wednesday evening 4/23: Are we more lenient with discipline when  we’re tired, or hungry? Do we give up on self-discipline when there are  setbacks, or when we are overcome with temptations?

Today is twelve days of transformation - Humble Discipline

Thursday evening 4/24: Are we thankful when we receive constructive criticism and reflect on it, or only thankful when we discipline others? Do we judge anyone unless we are doing so selflessly with no personal bias?

Today is thirteen days of transformation - Bonded Discipline

Friday evening 4/25: Do we feel that our bond with people is getting stronger when we get criticized, or when we criticize, or do we end the relationship

2st Week 7th day - Disciplined

Today is fourteen days, which is two weeks of transformation - Dignity of Discipline

Saturday evening 4/26: Are we being disciplined sincerely, or do we feel hurt? When we discipline our child or student, do we foster their self-respect?

3rd Week - Compassionate

Today is fifteen days of transformation - Loving Compassion

 3rd week: Compassion and beauty.   

Compassion is feeling empathy to the pain of others. We combine both love and judgment at the same time. We place ourselves in the other person shoes. We are all essentially connected like a tapestry of life. Our compassion should bring our relationships to the next level. When we feel compassion, it gives us power so that we can push ourselves, follow our dreams, and reach our potential.


Sunday evening 4/27: Are we warm compassionate without being judgmental?

Today is sixteen days of transformation - Disciplined Compassion

Monday evening 4/28 Are we being compassionate appropriately? Are we being overbearing, or are we being limited? Are we addressing someone’s specific needs?

Today is seventeen days of transformation - Compassionate Compassion

Tuesday evening 4/29: Are we compassionate about our compassion, or do we do it because it is the right thing to do?

Today is eighteen days of transformation - Lasting Compassion

Wednesday evening 4/30: Are we less compassionate when we’re tired, or hungry? Do we stop being compassionate when we don’t see improvement over time?

Today is nineteen days of transformation - Humble Compassion

Thursday evening 5/1 Are we humble when we empathize with someone, or do we feel righteous? Are we compassionate in an anonymous fashion, not taking any personal credit?

Today is twenty days of transformation - Bonded Compassion

Friday evening 5/2: Do we feel that our bond is getting stronger when we help others, or do we feel that once we are done, our relationship will be over?

3rd Week 7th day - Compassionate

Today is twenty-one days, which is three weeks of transformation - Dignity of Compassion

Saturday evening 5/3: Are we being sincere when we help, or are we doing a favor? 

4th Week - Victorious

Today is twenty-two days of transformation - Loving Will-Power

4th week: Will-power and perseverance.

Will-power is our drive towards success. When the going gets tough, we get tougher. If we think that we are on the right course, we keep going with passion. We embrace the challenge ahead, knowing that it is in our power to overcome it, not due to our strength, but due to our invisible partner, the universe. While monitoring our situation, if we sense that the universe is pushing us on a different path, we are ready to yield, and change our course. The ability to be flexible is a sign for healthy will-power. We would like to respect any challenge. Perseverance propels us to towards our potential.


Sunday evening 5/4: Do we love challenges? When fighting for something we believe in, is it accomplished in a loving manner?


Today is twenty-three days of transformation - Disciplined Will-Power

Monday evening 5/5 Do we know when to push forward, and when to yield and change course? 

Today is twenty-four days of transformation - Compassionate Will-Power

Tuesday evening 5/6: Are we compassionate about overcoming challenges, or do we just want to survive? Do we listen to someone who usually makes us impatient?

Today is twenty-five days of transformation - Lasting Will-Power

Wednesday evening 5/7: Do we give up when we have setbacks, or do we continue and maybe change course? 

Today is twenty-six days of transformation - Humble Will-Power

Thursday evening 5/8: Are we humble after overcoming a challenge, or do we tell everyone around us about our success? Do we think that we did it on our own, or do we acknowledge that we got some help on the way?

Today is twenty-seven days of transformation - Bonded Will-Power

Friday evening 5/9: Do we feel that our bond is getting stronger when overcoming a challenge together, or do we break up our relationships?

4th Week 7th day - Victorious

Today is twenty-eight days, which is four weeks of transformation - Dignity of Will-Power

Saturday evening 5/10: Do we overcome challenges with integrity, or do we cheat our way out in order to succeed? 

5th Week - Humble

Today is twenty-nine days of transformation - Loving Humility

5th week: Humility.

Humility lets us receive wisdom from  anyone. Our power comes from our invisible partner. All we bring to the  partnership is our desire, specifically our desire to keep this  partnership indefinitely. This partnership, will get us to where we need  to be. Being grateful and thankful daily helps increasing our humility.  Humility is necessary to reach our potential.


Sunday evening 5/11: Are we grateful and thankful with love or with envy?

Today is thirty days of transformation - Disciplined Humility

Monday evening 5/12: Are we always being grateful and thankful, or only when people are around us? 

Today is thirty-one days of transformation - Compassionate Humility

Tuesday evening 5/13: Are we grateful and thankful with compassion, or we are just used to it?

Today is thirty-two days of transformation - Lasting Humility

Wednesday evening 5/14: Do we stop being grateful and thankful when there are setbacks, or do we continue, no matter the situation we are in? 

Today is thirty-three days of transformation - Humble Humility

Thursday evening 5/15: Do we think that we are humble, or we are not humble enough? 

Today is thirty-four days of transformation - Bonded Humility

Friday evening 5/16:  Do we feel that our bond is getting stronger when we are grateful and  thankful, or do we feel inferior and break up our relationships?

5th Week 7th day - Humble

Today is thirty-five days, which is five weeks of transformation - Dignity of Humility

Saturday evening 5/17: Do we feel being taken care of with dignity, or do we feel low self-esteem? 

6th Week - Connected

Today is thirty-six days of transformation - Loving Bond

6th week: Bonding.

We are social beings, and we need to bond  with each other. Our early bonding, when we were babies, with our  primary caregiver, usually a parent, affected our adult mental health.  The power of a bond, is greater than just the sum of the individuals. We  motivate and encourage each other to reach our potential.


Sunday evening 5/18: Do we bond with love or with envy?

Today is thirty-seven days of transformation - Disciplined Bond

Monday evening 5/19:  Do we judge our relationships when we bond, and know when to break up  our relationships, or do we find ourselves in relationships with people  that hurt us, or take advantage of us? Do we review the discipline in our bonding experiences to see if it needs adjustment? 

Today is thirty-eight days of transformation - Compassionate Bond

Tuesday evening 5/20: Do we bond with compassion in person, or we just “bond” on social media?

Today is thirty-nine days of transformation - Lasting Bond

Wednesday evening 5/21: Do we stop bonding when there are setbacks, or do we continue, no matter the situation we are in? 

Today is forty days of transformation - Humble Bond

Thursday evening 5/22: Are we humble when we bond, or are we arrogant?

Today is forty-one days of transformation - Bonded Bond

Friday evening 5/23: Do we feel that our relationships are getting stronger, or do they fall apart?

6th Week 7th day - Connected

Today is forty-two days, which is six weeks of transformation - Dignity of Bond

Saturday evening 5/24: Do we feel dignity in our relationships, or do we feel low self-esteem? 

7th Week - Respectful

Today is forty-three days of transformation - Loving Respect

7th week: Dignity and respect.

We are social beings, and this week we feel how other people respect us. In the previous six weeks, we were acting based on the theme of the week, with a different aspect each day. This week, we are gauging how we behave, based on how other people treat us. All we need is to be sensitive, and reflect. What we find out this week, will guide us how to improve in the future, and get us closer to our potential.


Sunday evening 5/25: How are we being loved by others?


Today is forty-four days of transformation - Disciplined Respect

Monday evening 5/26: How are we being disciplined and judged by others?

Today is forty-five days of transformation - Compassionate Respect

Tuesday evening 5/27: How compassionately are our issues being dealt with?


Today is forty-six days of transformation - Lasting Respect

Wednesday evening 5/28: How much patience others have for us, when we make mistakes? 

Today is forty-seven days of transformation - Humble Respect

Thursday evening 5/29: How grateful are the people around us?

Today is forty-eight days of transformation - Bonded Respect

Friday evening 5/30 How strong are our relationships?

7th Week 7th day - Respectful

Today is forty-nine days, which is seven weeks of transformation - Dignity of Respect

Saturday evening 5/31: Are we being respected? 

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